Thrill That Kills

The biggest tragedy of time is the overwhelming presence of fear of unknown in our minds. Negativity is bombarded from all the direction in our day to day life it stars from early morning newspaper and keep us engage till the late night TV news. One aspect which we may not able to ignore that the negativity give us some thrill and even with best of our efforts we succumb to it's prevailing presence in our lives. Crime , violence are our strong associates allowing us to get the thrill of destruction and devastation. Passively pulling down others with all means is a dominating tendency in our mind. Curiosity to explore negativity is a driving force within us and which compel us to get influence or overpowered by it. The animal instinct of dominance is instrumental to our indulgence in violence and crime. We enjoy the movies with larger dose of violence most of the times and reading material with higher content of crime give us thrill. The Saviour and destroyer both are part of our fantasy world. Driving recklessly,drinking absurdly are also related to this latent fascination towards crime and violence which pertains to some kind of thrill.


Generally all thrills at extreme levels are self destructive. Avoiding unnecessary exposure to crime and violence is an effective remedy to control our attraction to this kind of thrill.
Giving the consistent thoughts to the aftermath of violence is another measure that facilitate us in showing restrain to this dangerous thrill. We need to develop trait of sensitivity in our personality to get rid of violence in our minds.

Violent Minds

Tender minds in childhood are vulnerable to violence and aggression. Overdose of violence through media ,movies and games is polluting the innocence minds with revengeful and destructive behavior. Our mind is too sensitive to all the activities whether reasonable or unreasonable. Any aspect taking the mature shape in mind is result of continuous and consistent hammering by different sources. We tend to ignore the child's excessive fascination and indulgence in violent games,toys and movies which prove fatal in later stage of individual's life. Aggression if not channelized it lead to frustration and alter the normal behavior to self destruction.

Sports is the ideal medium to improve and control our aggression. Physical games allow us to ventilate out our negative energy and it help us in balancing the aggression with politeness in all circumstances. Any sport teach us to become a good human being with all the positive qualities of a gentleman. Playing under laid down rules is instrumental in developing our mind set to hold on our feelings and emotion in an acceptable manner. Better to avoid any irrelevant exposure of violence to kids in their tender age as it can leave the strong impact on the thinking and approach. Play hard and learn hard need to be the motto of prevailing times for well being of human race.

Coloring Others in Your Colors

The stupendous task is to influence some one with your own thought process. What ever we are and where ever we are,until other recognize our presence we feel ignored and dejected. We as an individual love to propagate our ideas and thoughts to the wider mass for self gratification. There is always a tendency of not sparing any opportunity to make felt our presence in any forum. We may proclaim our self to be aloof from adulation from others but in reality most of us are happy to be listened and praised for our thought process and line of thinking. It's immaterial for us to understood the quality and content of our approach but living with it related to our identity. Networking and social groups on net is the outcome of this trait of individuals. Means and media opted for fulfilling this ever present desire vary due to circumstances,resources and personalities.

Making mark on others with your thought is herculean task. The prime cause of this resistance is that we all are possessive and defensive to our own beliefs and thinking immensely. No one is comfortable to alter his or her stance easily as we relate it to our individuality. Coloring others in our colors is the challenge which fascinate us. Difficult but always possible. Important factor is how we position,profess our thoughts in our social and professional circles. We need to flavor our line of thinking to make it more acceptable to peers, friends and relatives. People can be influenced only when they are pushed to introspection, disbelief and ignorance.

Its a great feeling when people listen to us and recognize our stance on any matter or issue. So keep on striving to make your mark, once you are able to put your color on others it's everlasting and give you the sense of satisfaction and at same time trigger you to expand your following to the lager mass.

Chemistry of Love

We all are prone to addictions and reason for any addiction is nothing but it stimulus our instincts. Addictions can be bad and may at times lead to havocs in our lives. To all the obsessions there is no limiting factor, a distinct chemistry in brain is responsible for any possessive and obsessive behavior.

when two individuals are in love ,the chemistry in brain is in it's hyper stage. The formulation of different chemicals in brain drive us to unique and exciting reactions. Our control on our senses is negligible and it take only unidirectional approach. Chemical reactions in brain create the euphoria around us and we keep falling to it's magic. The troubles and pains are out of our mind and optimism is prevalent all around. The stage is for complete surrenderer , adjustments,sacrifices and acceptance. The relation is treated and projected as unique and distinct lead to obsession ,possessiveness. We feel great sense of high and no drug can give this sense of high to the individual. So its beautiful addiction and more safe with very positive stimuli.
When we fall in love with other persons it's out come of biological,chemical phenomena,but to fall in love with oneself needs efforts. Imagine when we are in love with our self with same intensity.

The high will be unimaginable and everlasting. World around us will change for ever with full of joy and happiness. Obstacles ,insecurity ,fear of failure,uncertainties ,incompetence,incapabilities and weakness from or personality can be thing of past.
Fall in love with yourself to experience the everlasting high in life.

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Great Article to change our point of view

It's been 18 years since I joined Volvo, a Swedish company. Working for them has proven to be an interesting experience. Any project here takes 2 years to be finalized, even if the idea is simple and brilliant. It's a rule. Globalized processes have caused in us (all over the world) a general sense of searching for immediate results. Therefore, we have come to posses a need to see immediate results. This contrasts greatly with! the slow movements of the Swedish. They, on the other hand, debate, debate, debate, hold several meetings and work with a slowdown scheme. At the end, this always yields better results. The first time I was in Sweden , one of my colleagues picked me up at the hotel every morning. It was September, bit cold and snowy. We would arrive early at the company and he would park far away from the entrance (2000 employees drive their car to work). The first day, I didn't say anything, either the second or third. One morning I asked, "Do you have a fixed parking space? I've noticed we park far from the entrance even when there are no other cars in the lot." To which he replied, "Since we're here early we'll have time to walk, and whoever gets in late will be late and need a place closer to the door. Don't you think we should help them too! ?" Imagine my face!

Nowadays, there's a movement in Europe name Slow Food. This movement establishes that people should eat and drink slowly, with enough time to taste their food, spend time with the family, friends, without rushing. Slow Food is against its counterpart: the spirit of Fast Food and what it stands for as a lifestyle. Slow Food is the basis for a bigger movement called Slow Europe, as mentioned by Business Week. Basically, the movement questions the sense of "hurry" and "craziness" generated by globalization, fueled by the desire of "having in quantity" (life status) versus "having with quality", "life quality" or the "quality of being".

French people, even though they work 35 hours per week, are more productive than Americans or British. Germans have established 28.8 hour workweeks and have seen their productivity been driven up by 20%. This slow attitude has brought forth the US 's attention, pupils of the fast and the "do it now!" This no-rush attitude doesn't represent doing less or having a lower productivity. It means working and doing things with greater quality, productivity, perfection, with attention to detail and less stress. It means re-establishing family values, friends, free and leisure time. Taking the "now", present and concrete, versus the "global", undefined and anonymous. It means taking humans' essential values, the simplicity of living. It stands for a less coercive work environment, more happy, lighter and more productive where humans enjoy doing what they know best how to do. It's time to stop and think on how companies need to develop serious quality with no-rush that will increase productivity and the quality of products and services, without losing the essence of spirit.

Many of us live our lives running behind time, but we only reach it when we die of a heart attack or in a car accident rushing to be on time. Others are so anxious of living the future that they forget to live the present, which is the only time that truly exists. We all have equal time throughout the world. No one has more or less. The difference lies in how each one of us does with our time.

We need to live each moment. As John Lennon said, "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans". Thanks for reading till the end of this message. There are many who will have stopped in the middle so as not to waste time in this globalized world!

Think Beyond Business

All the curse is the result of myopic view taken by most of us to handle socio-economic issues in this world. Basic factor for sustainability is evolved around the give and take approach. The problem lies in expecting all without giving anything, we avoid sharing wealth and resources. Disparity in society never moves us and we tend to follow only the path of based on selfishness and greed. There are transactions in life where we are not suppose to gain any returns but at the same time it's quintessential for humanity in totality. That aspect is quite ahead of normal business acumen ship and may give us in return something great to our expected line of thinking.
Let learn not to treat all happenings around with narrow business lines it will take us only to a life cycle which is going to lure us to strive for reaching a limit and then again to hit the bottom,these are vicious circles of up and downs. The classic example of exception is survival of all living things apart human beings if they are not disturbed by mankind's destructive handling of environment. Long term ,limited and stable sustainability without much upheavals and by consuming resources in a balanced manner.
Start getting acquainted to simple living and avoid the as many as frills in life. The quality of life is not related only to life styles but more to how we manage our surroundings and environment to add grace in our persona.