Thursday, December 11, 2008

Fatal Attractions


Attractions are natural in our life and we need to learn to live with their presence. We are living in highly materialistic dynamic and exotic world and being a human being falling to these attractions is understandable. Some of us are attracted to money,status,recognition and other may be a individual,relation,beauty or personalities. This is on going phenomena and attractions keeps on changing its colors with age ,circumstances and peer pressures. Rejections and denials only complicated the issues and only add to confusion,depression as well as frustrations. Three are no age,gender regional or religious boundaries to curtail the impact and influence of these attractions. The intensity with which we may approach to them varies depending on our personality but no one can ignore the overwhelming role they play in our lives. Our mind set,state of health , ego levels and temperament reflect the influence to our obsessions.


Important is to visualize when the attraction is turning in to obsession and may be treated as fatal. The simple solution is first of all to avoid the denial and accept that we need to face these attraction omnipresent in and around us. Other rational approach is to divert our energy and focus to other attractions when we start realizing that one is becoming fatal due to our obsession with it. Fortunately all obsessions are short lived and some Patience allow us to die its own death. Remember all minor or big fatal attractions are detrimental to our peaceful,prosperous and healthy existence.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Morning Bliss

In early morning time you feel like in heaven,this is wonderful gift of the nature. This is the period of complete harmony between you and your environment. It's the time which signify hope, optimism and progress. The aura of rising sun engulf us in sense of freshness to the limits. Calmness overpowers are fears and apprehensions, our out look diverted to new progressive turn. Morning bliss indicates the victory of light over darkness. Sound mesmerize us in its sweet melody and for a few moments we are in absolute peace with ourselves..

How many of us enjoy this privilege given by the almighty to us? There are umpteen excuses for not experiencing this audacious journey. Priorities are creation of mind set and key is to change our mind set for enjoying life to the fullest. The real joy of this precious life can be appreciated with exploring all glorious aspects around us. Nothing is free in this world and to gain something we need to sacrifice something. The choice is ours to set our priorities and self awakening only will provide us the right direction.

We as an individual must strive to enjoy this blessing from nature and once we get accustomed to this experience ,life will be more joyful with internal peace and mental stability, Be assured to get a new glow on your face . Improvement in fitness levels is the pleasant off shoot of this experience.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Enigmatic To Core.

We Human beings are enigmatic in their general behavior. Its may be due to insecurity or other valid or non valid reasons. We all say that we like an open book but invariably this may not be the fact. There are circumstance where intention is not to behave in this manner but our acts give the different indications.

The strong factor responsible for our being enigmatic is that we love to hold on to things around us. Other aspect is to give “surprises”in our dealing with other people. Even when we project our personality as open and transparent it also largely with some purpose and intention. Interestingly we consistently observe the moves of others before opening our cards. Our perceptions to vulnerability push us to be a enigmatic personality and manifest in isolation. It has adverse impact on our relations and acceptance levels

Introspection and feedback from friends, colleagues and spouse can help us in being getting more awareness about our conduct. we need to avoid our temptation to carried away by the gains for being enigmatic.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Life After Death

when we take the decisions with over consciousness approach it shows our tendency of not visualizing beyond a limit. We are prone to get entangled in “if” and “buts” and ultimately miss the bus. There are situations those demands action without deep analysis and rationality. There is a life after death will make us brave with dignity to conquer any obstacles.

The grooming of individual plays a critical role in his or her style of decision making in personal and as well as professional life. Over the period we develop the tendency to avoid to take anything on our head. Mere permutation and combination only land us in acting upon in simple situations in for ordinary out comes.

Let start adopting the approach where we learn to listen from heart in some highly complex and stupendous challenges for getting more then ordinary results. Decisions taken with taking all known risks only carry us to the path of glory. Remember roads all ready traveled lead us to known horizon in all possibilities.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Living Dangerously

Life has more tilted towards the uncertainties then certainty these days .You are always living on edge and fear is overpowering our thoughts. The audacity of threat is immense and gradually starting effecting our normal lives. The confidences levels for all has taken a deep dip and way out seems to be difficult. Whole world is a danger zone for a common man and race for survival was never that hard. Fear has transformed in to negativity and all of us precarious to never ending pessimistic behavior.

When we create fear for others we also make ourselves also vulnerable to fear and if we indulge in demonstrating threat to others it also has impact on our confidence level as well. Negative energy can penetrate and propagate more swiftly then positive energy in us. Once we surrender and channelize our thought process towards hate and destruction there is no coming back from this state of mind. Handling terror with terror Strategy results in generating more terror.

The only answer is to refine our thinking process to avoid getting victim to biasness and vested interests and develop the strength to face the truth and realties around us. Our journey from being animal to human beings is still not reached to the desirable limits. We must be optimistic for enlightening our thinking based on better values and beliefs rather on perceptions.