We Human beings are enigmatic in their general behavior. Its may be due to insecurity or other valid or non valid reasons. We all say that we like an open book but invariably this may not be the fact. There are circumstance where intention is not to behave in this manner but our acts give the different indications.The strong factor responsible for our being enigmatic is that we love to hold on to things around us. Other aspect is to give “surprises”in our dealing with other people. Even when we project our personality as open and transparent it also largely with some purpose and intention. Interestingly we consistently observe the moves of others before opening our cards. Our perceptions to vulnerability push us to be a enigmatic personality and manifest in isolation. It has adverse impact on our relations and acceptance levels
Introspection and feedback from friends, colleagues and spouse can help us in being getting more awareness about our conduct. we need to avoid our temptation to carried away by the gains for being enigmatic.
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