
Attractions are natural in our life and we need to learn to live with their presence. We are living in highly materialistic dynamic and exotic world and being a human being falling to these attractions is understandable. Some of us are attracted to money,status,recognition and other may be a individual,relation,beauty or personalities. This is on going phenomena and attractions keeps on changing its colors with age ,circumstances and peer pressures. Rejections and denials only complicated the issues and only add to confusion,depression as well as frustrations. Three are no age,gender regional or religious boundaries to curtail the impact and influence of these attractions. The intensity with which we may approach to them varies depending on our personality but no one can ignore the overwhelming role they play in our lives. Our mind set,state of health , ego levels and temperament reflect the influence to our obsessions.
Important is to visualize when the attraction is turning in to obsession and may be treated as fatal. The simple solution is first of all to avoid the denial and accept that we need to face these attraction omnipresent in and around us. Other rational approach is to divert our energy and focus to other attractions when we start realizing that one is becoming fatal due to our obsession with it. Fortunately all obsessions are short lived and some Patience allow us to die its own death. Remember all minor or big fatal attractions are detrimental to our peaceful,prosperous and healthy existence.
This is true to the core of existence. Desires propel our actions. But, when it becomes fatal, it can endanger our lives. Good write Dinesh.
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