When you are not True

Always speaking truth and being honest may be not that relevant in life. Truthfulness can hurt people and in some situations lead to more upheavals then harmony and peace. Keeping other person in illusions can be more appropriate for lifting the spirits of a sliding individual. In life recurrently we need breathers for moving ahead and harsh truth can deviate us from achieving the required momentum.

So hiding the facts or to disguise true picture essentially is not always detrimental for relationships. All aspects of life can not be black and white and grey areas do exists, managing these, demands maneuvering at times. We also like to play hide and seek for making our life adventuress and challenging. So when we are not true it adds twist to life.

Facing the truth is an incremental process; we seek time to prepare our mind set to accept the realties in our environment. Gradual progression is facilitated by some deviations in this path of reaching at ultimate stage of truthfulness.

When you are misunderstood

What we mean and how it is taken by another person is always intriguing aspect in dealing with people. People attempt to understand us with their own mind set and that it self lead to the misunderstandings.

These gaps are the result of lack of communication or when we are communicating without conviction. Expression is more clear and specific when we are unequivocal in demonstrating our thoughts in our words. Any manipulation in expression exposes us to the distortion in our communication. Some times we are not received in right context by another individual. This situation is more tricky and sensitive to handle. Solution is simple and straight that if we are sincere and clear in our approach the misunderstandings will remain as passing phase in dealing with others. Patient is the key factor and as well as the controlling factor in avoiding any mishaps. Vibrations of truthfulness will prevail over the cracks and persistent in pursuance of our beliefs bound to make us understood.

Success Brings Pain

The glaring example is the life of Michael Jackson (MJ). In all our life we keep on striving for our self defined parameters of success and glory but when it comes we our self are incapable to handle it and as well as understand it. All our deeds always contemplate to achieve the ultimate to experience the path of recognition and fame in our respective fields.

We at pinnacle of our achievements are perceived at definitive state of peace and happiness but ironically most of us passing through the acute pain and emotional disasters in this phase of life. Expectations are raised to never imagine heights and coming good on one trigger the struggle for another. At top we are alone, materialistic success regrettably enlarges our gaps in society. Another interesting and unsettling aspect is that we start to develop the tendency to ignore the ground realities as fame and success intoxicates our reasoning abilities.

The end of this cycle is devastatingly painful if we are not able to handle our success in a reasonable way. In this fall out the sufferers are many who get along with us in this ladder of success and glory. So getting at top is only the half battle won, sustaining there is the real challenge. The hard truth is that sometimes average achievement is more satisfying then to be at top.