Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Happiness is conditional and joyfulness is unconditional


Reading this statement triggers the anxiety to learn more about happiness and joyfulness.
Happiness is momentary and it’s always set off with few actions or activities .Mostly the feeling of happiness is transitory in nature and rarely did we fall continuity in its presence. So happiness is outcome of certain favorable happening which provide us the fleeting solace. Happiness comes with some background/circumstances and we can say with condition. This is the reason for trail to happiness is on going affair in our lives.

Joyfulness is permanent state of ecstasy. The bliss that engulf us forever and without any preconditions Three are no deviation in our state of mind and everlasting joy prevails in our feeling and relations .It surpass all the mundane obstacles or conditions for being happy. It may sound unrealistic but at the same time very possible and achievable state of mind. Look for opportunities which can sail you to perpetual jubilations.


Relationships Without obligations

In all our relations in life the ubiquitous obligations always come in picture. Whatever we claim and propagate about relations without any obligation but in practical parlance it never happens. Ironically even if you evolve the relations with out any expectations still it is perceived with some expected compulsion. Relations based on mutual respect, love or affection may sound as myth to all of us. Any kind of consideration may be the base the existence of all nature of relationships.

But the other aspect of understanding is that there are relations without any obligations. It’s only possible when we are not expecting anything from any kind of relation which is almost impossible. Initiation of relations generally is without any compulsions but as we move ahead depiction start taking different colors of obligations.

The trick of sustenance is controlling our expectations out of the relations. If we are able to manage our relations with minimum expectations it may lead us to a stage where we can experience the relations without any obligations.


Thursday, November 12, 2009

A Whole new Mind” Are we Ready?





This reading can awaken us to face the new era belong to divergent thinkers. We are profoundly overpowered by the one track thinking in all aspects of life and new realties of future will push us for the solutions with Human Touch.


Ultimately it’s all in the brain irrespective of left or right hemisphere and first we need to understand ourselves as “Human” to change our perspective. World has to be explored with different mind set for better future for next generations

Monday, November 9, 2009

Social Support Dieing Pact

Society over the period is more on fault finding mission among people then to facilitate them in bearing pain and frustrations.People are restrain themselves from relating to society for the known reasons.

The Shift from joint family living is playing havocs all around. The pain of loneliness is far stretched then opportunity to get more space in life. It’s making impact on our physiological age and illness is the accepted norm after certain age. Sometimes there is no one to whom we can look forward to in life.

Society is an excellence medium to counter the cropping of unwanted elements. It can curtail the notorious aspect of human beings to a large extent. The regime has its own limitations and it only get indulge in post acts instead of eradicating the distortions at beginning. Society is watch dog which ultimately can penetrate deep in human actions across the universe to weed out poison.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

The difficulty of being good

Wonderful book to give us insight for self improvement

Act of Violence


The meaning of violence is understood in limited context by most of us. Individual’s behavior manifest violence in multiple dimension in our span of life. Aggressive approach, greediness, over ambitions and being selfish connote violence only. We first torture our self with avoidable sufferings resulted from defective mindset

We rarely meet a person who is at complete peace and free from all kind of violence. One has to realize that brutality or blood shed is the extreme form of violence. If we can control the act of violence at initial stage this may help in avoiding any involvement in any extreme act of violence. Always chasing the dead lines divert us to be impulsive and inconsistent approach and ultimately we fall prey to violent behavior.

For achieving the long lasting peace we must safeguard our own self from agony of undue stress. Tranquility in personality signifies the comfort and harmony with oneself. When we can ease the mind from lust and greed violence is only non consequential factor in our society.

Faith is everything

The Book nine lives tell us the story of faith and beliefs which are the prime mover in making our life meaningful .When we our rational it only results in more contradictions then leading us to any answers.