Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Listening skills Imperative For Relations Building

Listening skills are paramount for building Relations. Listening requires patience and perseverance to allow other to put forward his/her viewpoint. We need to learn to control our emotions to improve our listening skills. We are reactive by nature for self-defense or for dominance in our conversations.

By listening others we provide an opportunity to them for better comfort and understanding. All of us are looking for an opportunity to ventilate and if somebody provides it, the relationships start taking shape. The intricacies of relations can be managed effectively with just listening only. Good listening allow us to comprehend the personalities of other and which is relevant in building the relations.

Bad listener struggle to build and sustain relations and acceptance among others is always susceptible. Bad listener over a period develops illusions and misconception in relations, as their understanding in relations is questionable.


It sound easy to be a good listener but demands resilience from individuals prospective. Good listeners depict more open personality and which can be a base for long lasting relationship. Controlling our temptations to indulge in unwarranted conversations can help us in strengthening the listening skills.

5 comments:

  1. Very common tendency among we the peoples, and it is not so simple to be a good listener. It required practice, but after that it is very useful. The side effect of this habit is one becomes thinker.

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  2. Listening skills must require to everyone for good relationship, success. 90% success depend upon on listening

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  3. I fully agree with you. This skill is absolutely required in each sphere of life. I respect your thoughts. We need to develop this habit from the childhood itself.

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