Assertiveness and Aggressiveness

There is a thin line that divides aggressiveness and assertiveness and most of time we are not aware when we have crossed our limits. We treat aggressiveness our strength to over Power other Individual but it’s a misconception on our part. We may achieve the momentary edge over others by our dominating behavior but the impact of this edge is never long lasting. Aggressiveness is a sign of weakness and we must realize getting aggressive is exhibiting the hollow aspect of our personality. Another myth is that by being aggressive allow us to pas the stress on others. Reality is when we are aggressive stress always engulfing us in its bad effects. Easy approach is to loose our temperament and pose one self as so called powerful personality among others. Aggressiveness in any situation never gives any long lasting solutions and as hate breed hate.

Assertiveness is an approach where we are articulate in our communication without offending anyone. You respect the boundaries of others and at same time able to defend your self from other’s aggression. Some time it sound bookish but being assertive distinguish the refined person from an ordinary one. This trait helps us in graduating to another level of maturity. The best way of mastering this trait is in our approach of handling the issues with magnanimity. Generosity is rare strength and it makes us strong and confident.

Be aggressive to follow our beliefs and convictions, we all are wonderful human beings to get indulge in trivial matters where we waste our energy by getting aggressive.